often everyone has the desires, everyone wants to have someone special in your life or a something special which can change your life. which can keep you busy.. we all have the such type of desires so that we enjoy life. like waiting for someone special in our life, waiting for a beautiful moment of life.
# some times we think or wait for a moment that will give us all happiness’s or full success of life.
# sometimes we think for a loving person, whom we think that he is everything for us, we keep all our emotions, wishes, dreams, desires for him/her. but suddenly a point comes where we are betrayed by that one and we think that our life is over or we are finished.
# somewhere, in some cases there arrange marriage is done, in that case boy/girl also try to kill his wishes and desires which they made for someone special which was in their life.
# sometimes we are hurted by our close relations like our parents or brother sisters, we are insidely hurted that why this is done to me.
# but keeping all cases in mind, we should observe or we should think for a moment that, if we are hurted by them or feeling hurt then we should keep ourselves on their position rather than hurting ourselves. once if we realizing ourselves keep on their position we should think that there were some their compiletions due to that compilations they are hurting us.
# remember one thing that those people who become angry upon us or hurt us it means they feel you their, they feel write on you, they think that if they will hurt you,annoy you, bother you, they have these types of expectations in you.
# if you really think that you are right and others are wrong than there are simple ways to keep you yourself happy, just as, if your relatives or parents ae doing injustice with you than make a little world of your own, where you can enjoy. once a day live in such a condition which gives you rest of mind. because when you will keep yourself in a rest position, your mind will become relax and you will automatically generate ideas of keeping yourself happy.
# if you are unsetisfied with your environment and surroundings then make your destination and make a will to achieve your that destination where you will enjoy the rest of life. because you can not change the environment then you should compromise for a moment untill you get success.
# in that case where merriage is being forcbidly done, then they lose their hopes and that case they should try to have the new thinking and new friends and for a while they think for that person with whom they are got married, because everyone who gets merriage they think and they have wishes and new mind and new turn of life to enjoy with their life partner, we should think for them rather to destroy ourselves, because its not only the life which we live for ourselves. life's reality is to live for others.
# its not end to kill the emotions because emotions never hurt us, we are hurted by our expectations which we make from others. while , when they couldnot complete our wishes then we feel that we are hurted by them.
# so its the simple way to keep ourselves happy to do not make hopes from anyone, you would not be got hurted...
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