Anxiety in Love

Love!! What comes in your mind when you think about love? What is that? How one fall in love? How it controls the mind of love victim? There are a lot of questions which comes in your mind after listening to the word “LOVE”.

When I think about the love, a number of ideas come in my mind. Love, according to me is something special that creates the importance for someone in your mind. You start to think like the whole world is on one side and the person you are in love is on the other side. You want to be with that person in every situation. You will not see the negative points in your fellow being. All you will see is only the qualities. In fact all bad habits look like the qualities to you.

This was my point of view about Love. Now I will discuss something that what books say on this topic. As you will search anywhere you will find a thousand of books. In most of books you will find that love is a mental process. Some sort of hormones result into the likeness towards a person. Love has different types. From these types love at first sight is most frequent in our society. And that love is mostly one sided which is very much dangerous for the person who fell in love.

One can fall in love simply by the attractiveness of a person. That attractiveness may be due to sexual desire, beauty, innocence, or one’s desire to be affiliated with someone. Falling in love is not in our control, it can happen without any warning and without our intentions. Persons frequently say that they dislike love and it is difficult for them to fall in love but when they fall in love, they become more severe than others.

Love controls the mind and body of the victim. Whatever his/her love mate utters from mouth that becomes obligation for them. They are unable to neglect even the bad or not desirable wishes. If that person is neglected by his/her love mate than a feeling of discomfort and dissatisfaction comes in the mind and this can result into severe disasters.

In the conclusion we can say that love is an eternal force which derives a person to do the things which he has never done before. These things may be very much desirable if he is getting positive response from the opposite person. But if he is being neglected by that person than a dissonance will occur and in the result he can die. But LOVE is universal and it comes in everyone’s life at least once.